Note: undefine relationship is that kind of relationship that lack purpose, value and uncertain destination
Note: Bro, inability to bring into understanding the purpose of your relationship with anyone can bring in what you don't plan for.
Note: it's so disastrous to hear that some brother are actually in a relationship in their heart with a sister without the knowledge of that sister knowing,lolz.
Undefined relationship create space for unnecessary prayer point and hunger strike that has no point of view. I like to establish the root of my topic. Let me begin by telling you a short story.
There are many foolish things I have done in my little life, Whereby my closeness with opposite sex makes me authomatically believe she loves me like I fool myself, and even tell my friends am the one in charge where as I am never at the door step.
Most guys are blocking the way of many sisters from letting them seeing the main man coming For a serious matter. Bro, that you can't talk doesn't make you conclude you are in relationship with the person that doesn't have u in mind.
What I want to talk on today will cover up relationship with people even in the matter of destiny. Talking on the part of male and female matter first. There are many of us who are actually a normal friend with people, male or female, But the level of closeness has birthed unholy thoughts, unworthy imagination, lust and all
Because what you don't define today will define you tomorrow.
There are principles of relationship and maturity in dealing with them
That a sister like you as friend doesn't mean you are to enter a relationship. A relationship you enter that is not led by God will return to waste you in time to come.
Anointing
Obedience
Maturity
An anointed man with disobedience to the Spirit will soon be dried up.
There are things that what you need in putting in place is maturity. Over-confidence without adequate maturity helps a man to bite his finger as a result of dangers to come.
Disobedience towards God's principle is one of those things.
There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death. Proverbs:16:25
There are things we do that lack, understanding, the end of such things are bad destination. I will be talking briefly on some things that we don't really take caution of that do put us into trouble.
Every point I will dropping here is not just a theory but my personal experiences. I will be wicked if I can't open up to you to learn this
Please kindly note them.
- Communication pattern with opposite sex: the inability to communicate with opposite sex with mature mind and understanding can help you end wrong in what you don't want to
The way most of us talk to ladies and talk to brother is actually the reasons for most the lustful desire we led ourselves into. The words we use with ourselves is one of the major tools of battle in our minds. Words are spirit, the more they comes, the faster they grow.
Emotional words are words that reshappens the mind of men to respond to the desire of flesh, and the inability to control this will control us into the realm of death we don't bargain for. No matter how innocent you are, Continous interactions with those words will soon bring you to your kneels
Sweetheart
Sexy
Honey
Baby
Cute etc
To be continued tomorrow