Thanks, that means a lot, we kind of live in a bubble, so outside insight is much apprecialoved. Sometimes I fake not being stressed so as not to expose my kids to the look on my own parents' face so often when I was young. What's cool is that eventually this feeling becomes genuine if I stick with it, so I am ultimately the master of my emotions. Thanks for the birthday wishes, perhaps Monkey-B should hop in and respond to birthday wishes....