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RE: From a slave to a master chapter # 51 - The misty curtain, part I

in #memoir7 years ago (edited)

True words.

One key realisation in my Twin flame relationship to let go was to stop conlcuding that an insane mutual energetic attraction that doesn't fade away is to be interpreted as "then we are meant to become a pair". Many people who are in passionate relationships and then separate, mostly due to jealousy and distrust, fall into exactly this spiral; they part ways but actually both still feel strongly attracted to their former partner; when at the beginning they attempt to suppress these still existent feelings for another then often times they more and more end up wondering:"why do I still have feelings for him/her?" Finally, they conclude "because we are meant to be together". Those types of relationships indeed often are a never-ending on-off circle.

So for me, it was really imperative to acknowledge that the energetic attraction toward one another is simply there and it cannot be severed, BUT as said, this is not to be taken as an indication that we are therefore meant to become a pair or that this is the pathway I want to go down in the first place. Only by truly understanding this it is that the extremely seductive energy can be handled properly.

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Indeed.
In one word - MIND.

Who tries to convince us that "we are meant to be together?" - The mind.
Who doesn't want to give up? The mind.
Who (often) produces illusions of attraction? The mind.

And what are those specific thought-patterns anyway? Just an aspect that hides behind those beliefs. The beautiful thing is that once you integrate that aspect, you free it, and allow an even grander love, more passionate partner, to come into your life. Not only that, thanks to the integration you even free the old partner to grow on their own way. It's a win-win situation although, at first in the midst of the drama, it doesn't look/feel like that.