Menopause is a bitch - I suddenly just keep on gaining weight. I have now accepted it. I try and stay healthy (or semi healthy) at least during the week, but I want my wine and sweets over weekends. So yes, I am embracing the 2 larger number clothes I have to wear, it is strange because I have never in my life had to watch what I eat and I am a sweet tooth, but I also learned , now that I am getting older... life and health is a blessing, there are far worse things to worry about than your weight. So what the hell, live to the fullest and screw the rest.