I really hope we are in the USA within 3 months. If so, I think we can arrive as still somewhat sane and well-adjusted people, albeit minus two years of social activity outside our own household. I got a job on paper and for tax purposes, keeping me at 125% of the poverty line, the bare minimum for me being able to bring the family in.
Once we're there, that deal is gone and I need to repay the lost dollars ate up by the system for all those months of "employment". On paper there is no reason to deny us now, but you know how embassies can be, so I'll wait to count my chickens until the eggs have hatched. Bless up! !ENGAGE 20