Every life activities has some challenges, but in each of it, if you want to win over, you just have to steadfast. That is by seeing the hurdles in the activity before it comes out, if not, the hurdles will take you unaware.
In my childhood, I had so many friends, some were talkative, some were fighters, but many were soft individuals like me.
Before i started going around thses friends, I did not used to think of harsh stuffs.
But when I did, along the line, something happened and i was taught so many lessons, that was exactly what make me change from who I was, and then, i was able to joined the fighter’s group, which was their best lifestyle.
What always happens was, if any of my friends dare to talk to me anyhow, he will receive it hot from me.
They thought because i was new in the fighter’s group, I was going to take it easy on anybody messing with me, not knowing, before i make up my mind, and leave behind the person i once was, it was for a reason, and one of those reason was to show that i am not weak, but i choose to be who I was.
Therefore, it wasn’t up to a month, and i was treated like a king. Which i believe was how i deserved to be treated, and as it was exactly what I wanted, the happiness was there, but it wasn’t without so many fights, which comes as challenge.
This hurdles was the tremendous fights I got involved in, and before I knew it, it became a thing, i shouldn’t live without. Because more and more people everyday was challenging me, just to see if they can take away the champion.
It was remaining very small i should have wound somebody’s child 😁🤣
What saved me from this lifestyle was my parent taking me to a boarding school, and that was when I stop my friendship with those children.
Getting to that school, i met children that were soft, it seems I was even the harsh person in the class, but again I had to leave behind the fighter’s lifestyle, because the environment and the children’s I play with in school was influencing me.
Therefore, each time, we were on school break, and i go back home, my friends at home were expecting me to come out and play with them as usual, deep inside of me, I will want to, but i was a different person again.
Because the attitude they successfully installed in me, was successfully uninstalled through the influence of the school, which happens to be a new environment for me.
This was how I end the relationship with these friends that want to make me an everyday fighter, and till today, I am not regretting my decision.
But i am happy that i was able to pull myself out of their midst.