I might be making mistakes in some stuffs, but there is something I don't, and when I say it, I can even cite it with examples.
Believe me when I said it that, people all have their path to operate in life, that is why I mostly do and give a listening ear to people, because I know we do not feel the same, but at the end, we can choose to understand the same.
As the day break, we see people going outside, some with their cars, motorcycle, or bicycle. "why are they going out with those?" just for one thing, to hustle, and take home a daily bread, and you find out that these people enjoys these activities they do, some do it and do not want to stopped that activities.
And looking far at it, you will find out that, it is just their way in life, and that is simply who they are.
Occupation is an integral part of us, because we do it every day. There was a day i had this conversation with someone, he was telling me each time he visits the stores he built, he will see how good was it savings when he was working at a manufacturing company.
What happened was that, he used most part of his fund's to built those stores, and today that he is no longer working at that company, people rent those store's, and pay him annual rent, so he look at it and he remembers those days.
He is more happy that he did his best, and which is something he like, his family are proud of him as well.
we are who we are because of what we do, the things we keep in places, and the people we have impacted in our life. Assuming we go far, maybe relocate out of the area we live, those exceptional stuffs we did will still be there for the person's to see.
Speaking about myself, I think I have already had this understanding of who I am, and this i took it from the things I like to do, and I want to built on this lane as time's goes on.
The mistake that want to take us from ourself is when we understand who we are, but we just want to try out something else. Maybe, we thought it was going to come out faster, yet, who we are is the best thing, and as far as I know that will always be the best thing for us.
In each day, I follow up my instincts, because I understand that if it going to be better, it will be from stuffs that is coming out from my mind, and not stuffs that I do not fancy for once.
Yet, what I wouldn't want to do is by letting who I am to become a problem to me, at any point i realized I will not be able to follow up, I will let it flew away easily, because, it is not nice to trouble ourself up and down. Who we are will always be within us, not by pressure or anything, therefore, we should let the good of us heal us, and give us the good energy to continue to be good.