Our lifestyle is something we have to keep a very close watch to, because i have seen it, when a bad lifestyle cause a separation in a relationship, it so occur, because the other partner caution him to leave an habits, she didn't like, but he keep doing the bad lifestyle, in a hidden house, then she realized about it and could not continue the relationship with him anymore, it was a simple matter but it was not to her, because she could not take it that way, after finding out that his partner never stop what she finds not healthy for him.
I am not trying to concur on who is right, in a relationship, there should be respect and the people in love should lived with it, yet living with words that are not real with the one you love, can brings so many dramatic moment, when the other partner finds out about it.
Although some people can forgive, but the forgiveness isn't always the issue, the issue is knowing that your partner has been living with you, with the words that are not true but lies, this is the part that hurts the most, it might make the person not to believe in his partner anymore, and when it goes on and on, there would be no love, no respect and as well no oneness among the people.
The way I see relationship and everything concerning it is that, one should always try to come out plain and not in hiding, because it will even be better to tell what your partner is to expect from you, while spending his/her lifetime with you, than to cover up something's, that is still going to get blown.
My father always tell me, the truth is bitter, but he assured me, truth is the only thing that keeps a person free all the time, I also have a story to share about a person's lifestyle and how it relates to family and relationship wellbeing.
When a girl is in love with a man, the first thing the man is going to notice from the girl is respect, and this thing is not done through duress but it natural, and in the man's part, when he starts acting like he wants you all the time, is nothing than the beginning of his love for you.
Yet it doesn't means that as times goes on, it would still continue that way, there would be a change, because they both people would know theirself fully and then what is going to sustain their relationship will be understanding.
A lot of people think understanding in a relationship is something so small and that's why even them too, do make a mistake on the understanding itself, this words understanding is that final thing that is going to sustain a relationship, it is the paramount ingredients, as far as survival of that relationship is concerned, and it must be there in a relationship.
Just as it took place in the life of those people that choose to let go of his partner, because he was not letting go of a bad lifestyle she doesn't like, in that sense, if there was understanding between them, it wouldn't been any needs for the man to hide it, in the first place, it would have been so easy for him and her to cooperate, and rather tell his partner, he might needs time to let go of this habits he is so acquainted to.
Therefore, I summary that, relationship needs this things to survived, respect, understanding, and love.
Then we also have others Ingredients like communication, that come in when one of the partner is not around, maybe, he/she went to a new place, due to work or other life related matters.
If you have other ingredients of building a happy relationship, you think might be helpful, please share it with me.
