The deal is, I do not want to live in a way whereby I keep malice with my people, if I should do that, it simple means, indirectly that I am greedy.
I have heard a lot of story's where people run away to another places, just because, their family didn't gave consent of their love, but to me, I think that is not appropriate, because if I should do a thing like that, I might not even be a happy man, remembering what is going on in my life.
I just want to live my life without having stuff's that bother's me. So, breaking a day, and I find out that, the lady i set my eyes on, and feel the connection of fire in her eyes, my people don't like her, that wouldn't make me leave her at all, and as well, I am not going to leave my people for that. But I will just take it as a challenge, and I will become the man they want me to be, and I will win the agenda by all means.
You see, in life, most of the plans we want to establish will want us to fight, and this fight are as a result of people testing your fate, to see if really you want to do what you just said to them.
Therefore, to reason it into a large extent, my people don't have to like the person i want to marry first, but it should be me that love who I choose to make my partner.
And, I am sure when they see me proud of the lady, they will follow my footstep as time's goes on. I think where situations like this erupt are when the man failed to defend the lady boldly in the presence of his people.
This world was created by spoken words, so, it simply means, when we say a thing with authority, it will come to pass, so why shivering, the best is to maintain your stand, and you see your decision started to get acceptance in each day that passes by.
For me to run away, I will be a coward to myself, and also to the lady, 'like how would she looks at me?
I find out that some people don't just defend who they love, I know it's good to act cool, but in most cases, defending people in places we see things are not going right is very necessary.
Most people just want to hear the reasons, and I am sure, people act on reasons, so conveying the why you say that is your choice, it will not be thrown out through objections.
Moreover, choices are personal, all the people in the family do not have to like the same thing, the important thing is, are the people happy and love their choices? once this response is gotten, then, it is a beautiful family.