I understand things are hard, and I, myself, I am not perfect. On a daily basis, people are looking for ways for themselves. But this, on the other hand, has make some people to go extra miles, trying to be the person(s) they want to be, for themselves, and for their family. If you have not met with people like this, I think I have met with a few.
And some of them will even let you know that, it was not all that good of a lifestyle to become what they become, but it was not easy, that is why we see a crayfish bent.
The deal is, i so much love listening to people experiences, but there are some that when you sit close to them, and the person go on a length, to tell you who they are, and what their life has been, since their young age, you will even took pity on them, and at that point conclude that, life isn't fair to some people out there.
On a daily basis, most of the people we came across, are really going through a lot, but still keep a smiling face, it is just some who can't control themselves about the stuffs going through their head, will show it up, and a person will clearly see the situation, as it will be all written in his/her face.
My friend once show me a post on X, where the person was saying that, "we are in the era of difficulties, but full of smiling photos, it was a trending post, and I think for anybody that has been following memes posts on X, must have seen it in one way or the other.
Getting to know that people do thing's they do out of no choice sometimes has make me not to judge at first sight, but to better understand the actual reason why they are doing what they do.
In this life, people are amazing, and nobody was born destructive, most of the times, it is through the bad experiences they had in their life, that makes them to change their mindset and behave in a way that is not contributive to the society.
Because, at any point in time, a person want to do bad stuffs, he will feel it that, this he/she is about to do is wrong.
Nobody applaud for bad stuff in life, the people we celebrate in the world today are those who has lay good foundation for community's, state, and also for the world.
Have you ever hear when someone who lives a bad life been celebrated?, that is because, nobody wants to wrapped his/her head around bad things in the society.
But what I do not failed to do is expressing to the next person, if needs be, what he/she will stand to gain by being good.
This lifestyle is a narrow road, but it is hold and walk with pride, that we and our family will always be proud of, the footprint we have made.