Distrust can lead to a bad end, so avoid

in Emotions & Feelings2 years ago

Distrust is disrespectful because once a person betray the trust you had in them, it will breaks your heart, distrust takes a long time to heal, trust placed in someone is a lifelong thing that a person does to have peace of mind, a person who has a fistrust will have a bad feeling with himself and even regret why he put his trust in that person's heart.

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No matter how much money or property he will be given by the other person that make him feel betrayal, you will realise that the person would not accept those gifts because he is not going to be happy with himself.

The reasons is because where he put his heart has betrayed him, cancelled his trust in a way that he did not expect could come out in a blue.

Families are broken because of this distrust, sometimes this happens unknowingly by someone, I think if there could be a way to stop this distrust of a thing because it is spoiling the thing in the world more than we could see advantages.

Because people who find themselves hurting their partners so much, that makes them feel distrustful may have done it without any purpose, like a temptation or something, and that would lead to a misunderstanding that they wouldn't think it would get to that state.

But how can we as people handle this mistrust, we can handle mistrust by being ourselves and not neglecting the things that we should do to our families and friends.

That is, contributing to the success of our families, because it will bring a kind of bond that will help promote trust and will never bring any distrust, Being an autocratic man is not a good thing, in my opinion the number one cause of mistrust is because some people who cannot handle trust and allow distrust to arise in the lives of their loved ones is because, it seems, they hardly listen to another person's opinion.

Let me give you a little story that leads to distrust, a man had a wife, this wife had so much love for acting, she wanted to be a movie star and before getting married, the man knows his wife to be an upcoming movie star, but when he married her, he told her to stop everything related to her acting, the woman did not like his opinion and this brings in a disagreement in the family, to a great extent, the husband and wife had a distrust, thanks to the counselor who used her power and make peace in the family.

whereas, if the husband did listened to her own dreams with the wife, it would have been a simple matter, at times allowing the opinion of another person to reign is a kind of peace in the family and overall places.

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It was or is unfair that from the beginning you knew it was coming. Honesty was deceitful and after marrying you are sure you already own it and have no escape. Invade your space, dream to remove the wings. You definitely lose this spark and become an enemy or a shadow that disturbs your dream and questioning him why he had decided to marry you. I like your story. Regards el

In a relationship a person should respect one another and know that everyone decisions have a ground, thanks you for your awesome comments.

I hate it when men do that shit. He was fully aware of the lady's dream but kept quiet till he married her and wanted to put her in bus cage all in the name of marriage. It's unfair to veil someone's dreams and passion. She had trust in him that he was going to support her and all of the sudden he changed and wanted her to change careers just because of lack of trust. He shouldn't have married her in the first place if he knew he wouldn't stand it. I'm glad the issue was resolved in the end though. People need to know their stance on a subject matter before getting involved in it.

Thank you for saying this, trying to stop people's dreams is bad because dream is something that's keep someone happy in life, family should be built on love and support, he fails to know what he should do, but someone else put him through, and restore things in the right way for him and his wife.

It's just good he came to understanding with her because if he didn't, I'd personally advise she walked away

I will join you to stand on her side, because toxic relationship is unhealthiness.

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